MUSLIM MAN in his house

By: Al-Ustadz Abu Mu'awiyah
Posted by 'point of view'

From Al-Aswad rahimahullah he said: I once asked 'Aisha about what the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wasallam when he was at home. Then 'Aisha said,

كان يكون في مهنة أهله تعني خدمة أهله فإذا حضرت الصلاة خرج إلى الصلاة

"He always helped his family work, and if it came time to pray then he came out to perform the prayer." (Narrated by al-Bukhari no. 6939)

From Anas ibn Malik radhiallahu anhu who said:

كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أزهر اللون كأن عرقه اللؤلؤ إذا مشى تكفأ ولا مسست ديباجة ولا حريرة ألين من كف رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ولا شممت مسكة ولا عنبرة أطيب من رائحة رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم

"Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam very fragrant skin and sweat like a pearl sheen. If he runs, then swung robust pace. Silk I ever touch nothing is more subtle than the palm of his hand. Misk oil and amber oil I have ever kissed, nothing is beyond fragrant fragrance than the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam body. "(Narrated by al-Bukhari no. 3561 and Muslim no. 2309)
From Anas ibn Malik radhiallahu 'anhu who said:

خدمت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم عشر سنين والله ما قال لي أفا قط ولا قال لي لشيء لم فعلت كذا وهلا فعلت كذا

"I served the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam for ten years. By Allah, during which he never says 'shush' me. He never commented on something I do by saying, "Why did you do that?!" "Why do not you do it?!" (Narrated by Muslim, no. 4269)

From Abu Hurayrah, he said;

ما عاب النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم طعاما قط إن اشتهاه أكله وإلا تركه

"It is not the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam never denounce a meal though. If he liked it so he ate it, and if he does not like it then he left (not eat). "(Narrated by al-Bukhari no. 5409 and Muslim no. 2064)

Brief explanation:

Really the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam is the best example and role models for every man in all aspects of life, including in the case-case worldly. He is the Salaf (predecessors) is best for a father to his son, the best Salaf for a husband to his wife, and best salaf an employer to his servant.

He is not the husbands who become a burden on his wife and family, so although he is a head of state that must be obeyed by his people, even a prophet who shall be glorified by his people, even with all these positions, he still works in her home and help job-wife his wife as a husband's responsibility to his wife. He did not make his position as an excuse to laze around in a living or waiting for the love of the people apart, not at all. He did not make propaganda as a profession by which he can get the treasure from his advice. That's because he himself has asserted, as mentioned in Al-Qur `an, which means," I never asked for a reward from you, pay for my advice only from God. "

As a husband, he treats his wife well. He treats them as he pleased treated as such. He did not hurt them with something that he did not like to hurt him. Therefore even though he never denounced the food prepared by his wife, although perhaps not in accordance with his tastes. He really appreciates the efforts of his wife as the wife he appreciates his efforts to earn a living. The husband is the absolute leader in the household, who in between his right was the wife must serve him every time he took his wife to have sex with regard to husband and wife. However, this right does not make him zhalim to his wives. Hence his sallallaahu alaihi wasallam always keeping his body still fragrant and clean although was at home even though is not going to have intercourse. Because as my husband very happy if his wife to look beautiful and clean, then the wife and vice versa very happy if her husband look beautiful and clean. These are among the forms of the practice of word of Allah, the Exalted, which means, "And the wives are entitled to rights as they also have an obligation, in a way that ma'ruf."

As for as a supervisor or employer in work, then do not need to be asked how his friendly attitude to his subordinates or servants, and how high his appreciation to them. He never hit them, never scold them, and never criticize what they do, whether their work is appropriate or inappropriate. Therefore very natural that Anas bin Malik radhiallahu anhu serve him at home until 10 years old. It is also related to the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam ended not because he was fired or resigned, but because the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam died earlier. See also how he was one of the diverse Jewish waiter, at the end of his life into Islam because it is affected by his good character as the employer. All this as a justification for the word of Allah Ta'ala which states that the status of a Muslim is only determined by the level of obedience to God, other than that from worldly affairs then they are all equal and parallel, there is no lower than the other.

Subhanallah this is the true picture of Muslim men. They realized that the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam modeled in all the above cases and in others not reduce their standing as the attack men, even it will raise its position as a Muslim man because he has been modeled on the Prophet is a role model. If those non-Muslims to know the beauty of the morals of a Muslim who is actually from all sides, then for the sake of Allah, they will hasten to enter into Islam in droves to get preferment.

The mighty heart flip reverse, grant the Muslim men in this world as the moral character of your prophet. Give awareness that although it is not obliged to follow the Prophet sallallaahu alaihi wasallam in the world's problems, but he still is the best role model for every Muslim in the world affairs.